Playing The Victim

If you’ve landed on this page, you’re probably more than a little bit fed up. When playing the victim, a person will refuse to take responsibility for the circumstance that they are in. Instead, they point the finger to make others feel guilty, or simply ignore their role in the problem.  But, if you’re reading this, you’re probably on the receiving end of this behavior repeatedly. Need proof? Call the Michigan Private Investigators at Eye Spy.

Are They Constantly Playing The Victim?

There’s someone in your life who constantly plays the victim, and your patience is starting to run out.

Playing the victim is a tactic that lots of people use, consciously or subconsciously. Often, they do so because they believe that painting themselves as the injured party could benefit them in a certain situation, or in life in general. Victims have a habit of pitying themselves. Their reflection mirrors a defenseless child that cannot fend for itself. Playing the victim is a time honored narcissistic tradition. The narcissist uses it as a redirection technique.The narcissist plays victim to gain more control over keeping you beneath them and going only on their terms. They know if they play victim good enough you may start thinking that maybe you are the problem, and so you will just go along with their terms, and allow the relationship stay on a roller coaster ride that they control.

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